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Old 11-11-2009, 09:11 AM
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I started talking to him because I was curious about life in prison. Here we are months later and I have COMPLETELY fallen for this man. I have NO idea whether I'm strong enough to do this but...damn, I'm praying I am. It's funny to think that a person can meet their dream mate while one of them is locked up. I've never actually seen this man but he's taken my heart. I love his letters, I cherish his pictures...

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Old 11-11-2009, 12:20 PM
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Hi Fallenangel

There are plenty of folks who will tell you that yes, you are crazy. And there are others who will smile and say, yup, me too. If it feels good and isnt hurting anyone else, go for it!
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Old 01-10-2010, 09:46 PM
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I started talking to him because I was curious about life in prison. Here we are months later and I have COMPLETELY fallen for this man. I have NO idea whether I'm strong enough to do this but...damn, I'm praying I am. It's funny to think that a person can meet their dream mate while one of them is locked up. I've never actually seen this man but he's taken my heart. I love his letters, I cherish his pictures...

Am I crazy? Please tell me I'm not
Well I must tell you, I met my fiAncé through my brother in law who was in prison. It started off as just writing him to be nice and then next thing you know, I fell in love with him. And now we are about to get married in may. This march it will be 2 years, and I swear it has been the beat 2 years off my life. What helps me through is his family, they love me like i was born into the family. The more I fall for him the hard it gets, but with God I know we will make it through. I used to think I was crazy and used to worry about what everyone else what say. But I know the important thing is what makes me and him happy. People will always have something to say no matter the situation. So just follow your heart and keep your head up. Remember all things are possible through Christ Jesus who strengths us.......
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Old 04-07-2010, 02:07 PM
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Hi Fallenangel! I am totally new to this myself but in the same situation. I recently started a relationship with a guy in prison. He proposed to me after 2 days of talking on the phone. We met through a friend of mine that is locked up with him. A few years ago I would have said you were crazy but being in this position I totally understand. Don't look for excuses or reasons to talk yourself out of it. If it feels right and you love each other, GO FOR IT! Wishing you the best...
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I feel u i was also so afraid of what people would say or make it what my family would say me and my fiance just got engaged after just 3months of knowing each other there was something that just brought us together and now i cant stop thinking of him like everyone else says it dont matter what other people say the only person that can judge u is god above and as long as u and him are happy god above will be happy for u. It took me awhile to realize that but i know now that he truly loves me and i truly love him and nothing or noone will break us apart it took me awhile to realize that but by the power of god i got through it. I went to go see him for his birthday and that iced my cake for me he made me feel like his princess and no one has ever done that to me before so from that point on i knew he was the one for me. My next visit is for my birthday in august we are about five hours away so it aint bad well follow ur heart and dont let no one change ur mind
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Old 06-23-2010, 01:50 PM
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as long as yer both happy then dont worry bout what other people think or say ... im the same as you, totally inlove with my man, cherish his letters and photos, and when i hear his voice thats just the best ever, i so love his phone calls ....
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Go for it girl i met my man thru a mutual friend and now i am totally and completely in love with him.He has alot of time to do but its worth the wait.
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I started talking to him because I was curious about life in prison. Here we are months later and I have COMPLETELY fallen for this man. I have NO idea whether I'm strong enough to do this but...damn, I'm praying I am. It's funny to think that a person can meet their dream mate while one of them is locked up. I've never actually seen this man but he's taken my heart. I love his letters, I cherish his pictures...

Am I crazy? Please tell me I'm not
No, you are not crazy! We find love in many ways! I wrote my hubby for afew months and we had this connection soo strong! Now we have been married for 6 years and still going strong! So best 2 luck to you both!
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