marriage while in prison

[Silva]

Dcbaby welcome to PrisonPapaer

We are all in this together ~ is there anything specific that you have on your mind?

[Marc's Queen]

Originally Posted by Dcbaby23

Ok I'm new to this website and being with someone that I love, that's in prison. Does anyone have any that could help me thru this rough time?

Welcome to our world and the site. Hope you find all info that you may need on here and know that you can make some very good friends on here.

My husband has been locked up for over 9 years and I have stood by him the whole time. It began as friends but over the years I realized that the "true love" I was out here searching for had been right in front of me the whole time. Believe me we have had our ups and downs, the biggest ones being just before our anniversary that we just had in September and if all goes well he will be home in February and we will start our lives as the couple we were before he went in. But as the others have said love will conquer all things. Stay strong and stand by your man and all will be well.

[Dcbaby23]

Originally Posted by Silva

Dcbaby welcome to PrisonPapaer

We are all in this together ~ is there anything specific that you have on your mind?

Well I'm at alost for words because there are sonmany things I want to talk about. It's hard to talk to my friends because they truly don't understand what I am going through. I just recently sent my marriage packet off, and I'm super nervous. I mean I really do love him and we have had our ups and downs, I just want to make sure I'm doing the right think. When I say " I do" I don't ever want to get a divorce. It does get lonely sometimes an with me not being able to see him like I want to. But I just put it in gods hands. He parloes in 2016.

[Dcbaby23]

Originally Posted by Marc's Queen

Welcome to our world and the site. Hope you find all info that you may need on here and know that you can make some very good friends on here.

My husband has been locked up for over 9 years and I have stood by him the whole time. It began as friends but over the years I realized that the "true love" I was out here searching for had been right in front of me the whole time. Believe me we have had our ups and downs, the biggest ones being just before our anniversary that we just had in September and if all goes well he will be home in February and we will start our lives as the couple we were before he went in. But as the others have said love will conquer all things. Stay strong and stand by your man and all will be well.

thanks for the encouraging words. I'm young and sometimes when I see hound couples out places I get sad for a moment but then I get over it. It's not easy bu I know with god, all things a possible. I'm just thankful for my fiancé, because he is a really good man. My dad doesn't understand, and that kind of hurts but I can't help that I love him so much. He paroles in 2016

[Silva]

Originally Posted by Dcbaby23

Well I'm at alost for words because there are sonmany things I want to talk about. It's hard to talk to my friends because they truly don't understand what I am going through. I just recently sent my marriage packet off, and I'm super nervous. I mean I really do love him and we have had our ups and downs, I just want to make sure I'm doing the right think. When I say " I do" I don't ever want to get a divorce. It does get lonely sometimes an with me not being able to see him like I want to. But I just put it in gods hands. He parloes in 2016.

That's OK, we've all been there. Whatever you want to ask, have a look and see if there is already a thread on that subject, and if there isn't just start a new one. There is no such thing as a stupid question - we were all new to this once

As for getting married, no one goes into marriage thinking they will get divorced down the line. It is natural to have concerns, but I always agree with Shakespeare on this: better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all. At least you have a parole date, and I'm assuming that is a definite unless he picks up any new charges?

[Dcbaby23]

Originally Posted by Silva

That's OK, we've all been there. Whatever you want to ask, have a look and see if there is already a thread on that subject, and if there isn't just start a new one. There is no such thing as a stupid question - we were all new to this once

As for getting married, no one goes into marriage thinking they will get divorced down the line. It is natural to have concerns, but I always agree with Shakespeare on this: better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all. At least you have a parole date, and I'm assuming that is a definite unless he picks up any new charges?

That is a very true quote....I must remember that. I don't have any questions really, it's just kind if cool to be able to speak to someone that's in my shoes.

[((crystal))]

well i am really considering marring my bf who got put in jail over a yr ago..he's gonna be doing some time..so i jus basically need advice..i love him n he loves me..i jus dont know if once he gets out he's gonna go his way n im gonna go mine..plz help..

[Silva]

Hi crystal, welcome to PrisonPaper

Even if your boyfriend was not in prison, there would be no garuatees that your marriage would last, no one can tell you for sure, not even you or your boyfriend. So dont look at it just because he is in prison, make the decision based on how your relationship was before he went in.